Faking it
Maybe some people are really, truly confident, but most of
us who look like we are, are really just faking it.  
See if you can tell the difference between real and
fake confidence - you can't.
Well, you can fake that too if you want,
but that isn't what we were talking about.
If you need to get it done, quit your whining, pull it
together and fake it. It's like falling asleep when you are
not sleepy. You close your eyes and pretend to sleep and
eventually you fall asleep. Unless you have insomnia in
which case you probably want to get some Ambien,
but that's not the point.
It's like boobs, if you can touch 'em,
they're real.